My friend, the hermit
So I’ve been reading about St. Paul the Hermit (don’t ask) and in every bio I read, it mentions that he became good friends with Anthony the Abbot. I’ve been totally obsessed about this all day. Hermits have friends? Doesn’t that sort of defeat the whole purpose? I wonder what kind of etiquette one needs to follow when one is the friend of a hermit. Can you just swing by for tea, or is that considered rude? Of course, I imagine a Hermit rarely leaves his cave (solitude being harder to come by when one does), so it’s not like you run in to him at parties or the grocery store. How else are you going to stay in touch? Did Paul ever feel the urge to pump Anthony for all the latest village gossip? (So-and-so just got married. So-and-so was fed to the lions last week, etc.). Did they ever just hang out and kick it? Perhaps their friendship was based on taking care of each-others errands while the other was undertaking 40 days of silence and fasting. And how does a hermit maintain their solitude and still feed themselves anyway? Maybe Paul was just putting up with Anthony because he needed somebody to bring food, perhaps an occasional bottle of wine. Maybe every hermit has a friend who they rely on in such as way. Also, when your friend the Hermit starts to smell a little bit, do you tell him? Because really, who else will?
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October 18th, 2006 at 4:28 pm
Hermit etiquette:…
So I’ve been reading about St. Paul the Hermit (don’t ask) and in every bio I read, it mentions that he became good friends with Anthony the Abbot. I’ve been totally obsessed about this all day. Hermits have friends?……
October 18th, 2006 at 7:58 pm
The Abbas and Ammas of the Desert are spectacular reading. I’m glad to know that there’s someone else out there who appreciates them.
That said, Abba Anthony reportedly would spend some time baking lots of bread prior to his retreats. As far as how he and Abba Paul met, I’d likely guess they might have had the same teacher. I haven’t read much of their interactions with each other.
October 19th, 2006 at 12:42 am
You may enjoy this book: The Traveling Death and Resurrection Show by Ariel Gore, it blends west coast circus with Catholicism. I loved it.